Since your boyfriend broke up with you, everybody you encounter has probably given you advise. There are also plenty of advise about getting your ex back on the Internet and in magazines. All of it seem to tools meant to around the same theme, you have to allow him to go and stop having any connection with him. Of course , that’ s easier in theory, with all of the modern communication methods such as text and email.
Every time you pick the cell phone or start up your computer, the temptation is there. Using the phone is a little different because you can be humiliated from your ex hanging up on you, you could text and get what you want to say off your chest without any fear of your ex dangling up on you. However , as far as he is concerned you are still violating his privacy and he will be irritated.
If you maintain pounding him with text, your boyfriend or girlfriend boyfriend is going to lose all regard for you and you will never get your pet back. You are in practically the same position as an alcoholic. You want to stop, but the temptation is too great, which means you have to do the same as an alcoholic really does and take it one day at a time and get help because this can be more than you can fight alone.
Your relatives and best friend will be happy to help you. But you have to make it clear that you are trying to keep from having any contact with your ex boyfriend and then you’re having a problem with the temptation in order to text or email him. You will find that they will be glad to have you text or email them and they will carry on a conversation with you or spend time with you to get your mind off your ex.
Finding other interests like taking up a spare time activity, concentrating more on your job or doing volunteer work can keep your mind filled and help ease the temptation to make contact with your ex boyfriend. Tell yourself that will everyday you go without contacting the man you love, you are pulling him back. This is true because soon he can feel that you are deliberately ignoring your pet and men can’ t remain the thought of their ex girlfriend ignoring them.
The moment your ex boyfriend realizes that you are moving on with your life without him, it will put a new slant on the breakup. He will feel as though you have in some way managed to dump him and he is going to be embarrassed. Suddenly he will be the one with the urge to call or text you. He will probably be just a little sly about it and send a text asking you if he remaining a sweater or something at the place. This will only be to see how fast you will answer your pet.
Hold out and make him call. When your ex-boyfriend calls treat him like an aged friend and if he asks if you still love him, tell him you are going to always care for him, but don’ t mention the word love. It won’ t take him long to see that the breakup was a mistake and he will be doing his better to get you back.